The good, the bad and the things that just make your life, your life?
I got that gift today, courtesy SW Airlines.
My mom is here to visit, and it's a truly weird & wonderful experience. My mother is a an information supermonster, a real geek supreme, oddly restrained by circumstance & culture. One of few Texans able to converse in dialectic native Espanol, a professional translator and total wallflower punstress supreme, that's my Mom.
I'm not sure she could still step up and make chicken soup like she used to, or those fabulous chocolate chip cookies we both used to eat more of the dough of, than make cookies from..
Meanwhile, my mom is here, and it's some kind of huge milestone in the escaping from Texas meme our family has been laboring in all these years, before I cut my own way out.
You know, when you are sick or sad, all you want is your Mom.
Somehow, by making my own, at home here, her essence is here forever.
One of my life's goals, has been making the important people in my life, feel as loved when they are sick or ill, as my mom did for me. Perhaps that shaped what I ended up doing for a living.
The big difference being, that while you never cease to function as a fixed point from dependence on your own mother, we, as bodyworkers, try to give our clients their own points to work off of. The grammar is not great here, but the idea comes across, that we all need our own concrete points of reference, for our lives.
Do we live in a hot place, or a cold place?
My mom wants her windows open, though it will be about 11F outside tonight. I don't care about the heating bill, I care about her diabetic circulation. I know how to get it going again, at least thermogenically, in the am, and I have a medical contact if I can't.
So many years under the air conditioner, does things to one's perspective, that a week's worth, under an open window, can not deny
The down comforter should keep her comfortable.. I know the joy of cool breezes and down comforters, as another Texas native, and would never deny her.
When, at the end of life, someone wants something crazy, what else matters?
In fact, she may last another 1-15 years.
We should be so lucky.
I'll try to lend motivation.
Meanwhile, I am certainly gaining my own health-oriented motivation. More, as if I needed it.